My Sister-in-Law Secretly Did a DNA Test on My Toddler and Tried to Shame Me

A Reddit user shared a story about how his sister-in-law tried to reveal what she thought was a hidden family secret. She wanted to cause problems, but her plan went wrong, and instead of creating chaos, it had the opposite effect.

The Story:

“I’m a 30-year-old man with a 6-year-old daughter. We’re not related by blood. I was close friends with her mom, but we were never romantic—just good friends. She had her daughter with her husband. Sadly, after the baby was born, they both died in an accident. I felt responsible and decided to adopt their daughter.

A few weeks ago, at a family dinner, my sister-in-law saw an old photo. She asked who the woman in the picture was, and I told her it was my daughter’s mother. The next day, my sister-in-law decided to secretly do a DNA test on my daughter. She then showed me the results, which said that the girl wasn’t my biological child. She accused me of “raising the child of a dead woman’s affair.” She clearly didn’t know what she was talking about.

She made this shocking claim in front of my daughter and the whole family. For a moment, I was stunned, then I started laughing. I calmly told her I knew Lily wasn’t my biological child because she was adopted. She looked embarrassed and stormed out. Now, my brother is upset, saying I embarrassed his fiancée. But honestly, I think she embarrassed herself by secretly testing a child that wasn’t hers and then flaunting the results.

It turns out that my brother hadn’t told his wife that Lily was adopted. She knew my friend had passed away but probably didn’t realize that Lily wasn’t biologically mine. She might have thought Lily was my child with my friend.

For context, my parents and siblings all know that Lily isn’t my biological child. Lily also knows she’s adopted, and I’ve always been open with her about her birth parents. She doesn’t look like me at all; she takes after her biological mom and dad. Most people assume I’m her biological dad, but I don’t feel the need to correct them.

My brother insists my sister-in-law thought she was doing the right thing, but I don’t see it that way, especially since she crossed a big line.

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